A simple, happy, healthy life... with dogs?Owning a dog would seem to bring a complexity to our daily routines that runs completely counter to living a life that is simple as well as healthy and happy. There's the walking, feeding, fetching, grooming, pooping, and barking. How about owning more than one dog? How can life possibly be simple or healthy or happy for any of us -- the dog included -- in today's busy, demanding world?
Remember: living in today's world is all what you make of it.
If you choose to bring a dog into your home, the key to living a simple, healthy, happy life is to train the dog.
Jon Katz brilliantly illustrates the importance of training:
"Training isn't just about power or control; it's a dialogue between two species. The dog lover is literally forging his relationship with the animal, showing his dog how to live in the world."Dogs only create complexity when we -- their human owners -- fail in our responsibilities. Creating simplicity, health, and happiness with and for the dogs in our lives requires us to build a constructive relationship with the animal and to show her how to navigate her way through this human world. Doing so requires patience, persistence, and compassion. It requires us to commit time and energy up front and over time.
I would never suggest that building a relationship with a dog is inherently simple -- no relationship of any sort ever is -- but it is only as complex as you make it. My health and my happiness are the best they've ever been because of the relationship I have with our two dogs.
If you are interesting in building a better relationship with your dog and training him or her to succeed in this human world, here are three books I recommend:
"Katz on Dogs" by Jon Katz. It is well written, very easy to read, and based on Katz's years of experience with dogs. There are countless practical techniques.
"The Culture Clash" by Jean Donaldson. The book provides wonderful insight into why dogs behave the way they do and how we humans should interact with them in order to build a constructive relationship.
"Cesar's Way" by Cesar Milan. While the Dog Whisperer has a gift that I can't even pretend to have, his book -- and his TV show -- provide tremendous inspiration for what is possible.